Fanny....Life is CLEARLY Not a Fairytale!?!

Okay, so by now I'm sure you've gotten wind of Fantasia Barrino's latest 'declaration' that she is indeed 'with child'. I was asked to weigh in on this....so like to hear it....here it go!

Now, if you look back at my second post on this blog, I already spoke it into the universe that I was not surprised at all at the allegations of Fanny's pregnancy. Now of course, this was back when her pregnancy was simply 'speculation' but if you're in photos looking like you're about 20 months preggars with a a papasan chair....then what else are folks supposed to think! While I do think that in the beginning, this Antoine dude was probably telling Fanny one thing and then telling his wife something else....i.e. to Fanny: I'm tryin to be with you and to the wife: even though we're seperated, lets work it out! So while that may have worked for a period of time (*cue 'Everybody Plays the Fool), once this shit hit the media and the real story came out, I think Fanny knew all that she needed to know to make a well-informed decision. She hit a crossroads and had to decide in the face of all that came to light....does she kick him to the curb and move on to the next or does she continue messin with dude and all of his baggage because their connection is just that deep. Clearly we see which route she chose.

So herein lies the problem for me.....so you see the fire burning, some other folk have come along and added some gasoline and additional 'starter logs', the fire has even spread to other areas of your interest because it's just that hot....then you say to yourself, lemme keep 'dancing around the fire butt naked dipped in butter & Lawry's Season All'.....I shouldn't get burned, right? MA'AM!?! PROTECT YOURSELF!?! You can dance around the fire, streak through it, add some shit to it.....but what you must remember to do is protect yourself!!! I'm so not judging by any means, but when you have as much as she has to be totally fucked....or at the very least royally fucked contingent upon your actions, you've got to think this shit beyond we had a fun day at the amusement park so now you don't have to wear a condom tonight! Having said this, a part of me feels like a part of her was okay with getting pregnant by this dude as an illustration of how 'deep' their connection really is in spite of what the media may portray. BOO BOO, the game don't change! Whether you're Elaine from up the street, to Lisa Raye out in Turks & Caicos, to Maria Shriver in CA, to yo ignant ass here in NC! It doesn't matter how many floor exercises you prepare courtesy of Flirty Girl Fitness, how many round offs you can do in a row off of the ceiling fan, how many Pure Romance parties that you purchase a 'catalogue sampler' from, and the ultimate....how many children you bear.....a man ain't staying where he don't wanna be but for so long! So even if ya'll 'agreed' that you'll hang in there just to prove the 'paps' wrong (oh I'm sorry....cuz I just looooove you so much girl), now here comes this child that is sure to sober this dude up like a cop in your rearview mirror after leaving happy hour!

For Fanny's and the baby's sake, I hope they can hang tough but the foundation is extremely shaky...which is always telling. And is it me or does it seem like the drama with his wife just disappeared? What was decided? Is he still technically married? Where does he live? Is the wife (or ex-wife) done with the whole situation? I mean...so much information in the media....then NOTHIN! Weird!?! A part of me feels in my spirit that this dude may try to come out and say that the baby ain't his in the coming months. Wouldn't that be grand! Will they go on Maury? Will his mother support Fanny even though he's not claiming the child? Maybe they'll go on The People's Court over some shit that Fanny has given him (cuz you know she's bought him all kinds of stuff)? There's just so many more turns that this situation could take. Hmmmmm........